Eyes on Now
Nicholas Urbaniak • March 7, 2025
Thoughts swirl around me, yet they're not my own.
Merely echoes, whispers, from moments behind;
Yet now is alive, awake in my mind.
Come quickly, my friend—
Don’t dwell too long,
This moment awaits your joyful song.
Release all worry; it's always near—
Right now endures if your gaze stays clear.
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